Spiritual Attraction: The Secret to Finding a Soul Mate

Spiritual Attraction: The Secret to Finding a Soul Mate

That doesn’t mean that you have to spend every minute on the phone but you have to share with each other everything, so that you can avoid the problems and the misunderstandings. You will be free to enjoy your personal life and learn new things about yourself, as long as you don’t forget about your loved one. Don’t try to be someone else – Cleaning and maintaining your new room can be challenging, especially when you have busy schedule. You have to understand that it is not necessary to clean your room at the last-minute just because you are about to speak with your boyfriend or girlfriend on Skype. He or she probably knows you well enough, so there is no need to pretend to be someone you are not just because you are living apart now. Remember that this is only a temporary situation which you will be able to overcome together. You shouldn’t be afraid of the long distance college relationship because you can benefit from this experience more than you know. If you manage to go through this and still stay together, then you will be able to handle anything else as time goes by. The important thing is to use every chance you get to see each other and the best way to do it is by planning a vacation together. Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us in Your Inbox! Online Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice Tips in Your Inbox… Follow @theurbandater Like this:Like Loading…topadultreview.com

Share This Article Facebook8Tweet0Pin0 Posted in: Dating & Relationships Tagged in: college relationships, long distance relationships, Relationships With the emergence and continued prominence of online dating over the years, it seems there are more and more choices available to would-be daters and, er, procreators (yep, I’m keenly aware that, that isn’t a real word). Sure, there are tons of sights out there such as E-Harmony, Match and Plenty o’ Fish. Ultimately, though, the question becomes this: Do I or don’t want to spend money on a dating site? The answer isn’t really a straight up yes or no, it seems. There are a number of sites out there with a plethora of “gimmicks” and things to entice your dating dollars right from your purse… or murse, for that matter (man + purse = murse, Corey). How do you know what services are worth a damn?Finding site reviews is one way to accomplish this and what I’ll highlight today. Scouring the internet is easy enough, but sifting through the information can be a pain. A friend suggested DatingSites.org. The site is pretty simple and self-explanatory and slaps you in the face with reviews on their dating site reviews page. Having read through some of the sight reviews I felt most of them seemed pretty spot on. I saw some of the big heavy hitter sites such as E-Harmony, Match and Chemistry and as one might expect they have fairly high ratings from various users submitting their reviews and that’s a good thing. Good because the sites I just mentioned aren’t free, unless you find a free communication weekend, so it’s good to be confident in your purchases, especially where it concerns online dating. The other thing I encourage visitors to the site to do is to actually submit unique reviews of their sites, the ones they like and especially the ones that they don’t like. You gotta help your fellow dater out there, peeps!

So here’s a quick summary of a couple review sites I found that I thought were really informative and useful. Site: DatingSites.org Type: Dating Site Reviews Pros: Nice collection of sites and features reviews of many regarding the more popular dating sites. Comes with a large dating directory. Cons: Needs more sites to be reviewed. Literally there are tons of dating sites sprouting up every day, especially niche sites i.e. tall person dating, geek dating etc. Site: Consumer Reports Type: Consumer Reviews Pros: It’s CR guys, they are the heavy hitters of all things needing review. Cons: It’s CR guys, you’re more likely to fall in love with a toaster in the place of your soul-mate coming to this place. Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us in Your Inbox! Online Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice Tips in Your Inbox… Follow @theurbandater Like this:Like Loading…

Share This Article Facebook1Tweet0Pin0 Posted in: Online Dating Tagged in: Dating This is surely the best idea of someone’s life, right? As I penned about the other day online dating is on the verge of a big change. With the change and possibilities that Facebook’s Open Graph Search brings all sorts of folks are rushing to tap into this unexplored country.

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While there are potentially many noble ways in which the Open Graph Search could be used, we haven’t seen it yet. I remember the days when we all played “Words With Friends.” That was a nice game, wasn’t it??  Instead, I turn your attention to that which lies below your feet. The place where my mind and humor exist. Yes, people. The gutter. This article on Buzzfeed was shared by Tizzy over on our Fledgling G+ group.

The service is dubbed “Bang With Friends.” As of this writing the site is down for the count. I signed in for the service and saw a listing of pretty much all my female friends. All of them. Even those who are married… I don’t know what the fuck that’s all about, but in a word. Lame. Saw my mom in there… With a button that reads “down to bang… ” Just. Wow. Last time I checked, my name wasn’t Oedipus, mother fuckers! The service purports to connect Facebook friends for a night of fucking and other such debauchery. I think this service will go faster than a boy getting it on his first time. Yes, that quickly. Let me tell you. I’m curious to see what fresh new hell this service brings to bear.

It just screams “disaster pants,” if you ask me. Almost like a train wreck. That said, the service seems far away from being “usable” but even if it was who the hell would use it!!? This is the equivalent of walking around holding your wiener in your hand and looking at your female friends and then making eyes at said wiener trying to get her to do equivalent. Yeah, that awkward. Get your tickets to see this blunder fuck leave the station. Hooray! Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us in Your Inbox!

Online Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice Tips in Your Inbox… Follow @theurbandater Like this:Like Loading… Share This Article Facebook2Tweet0Pin0 Posted in: Online Dating Tagged in: bang with friends The good people at CheapSally.com have quite the interesting nugget of infographic goodness going on. They’ve kindly allowed us to share it here for our readers to review. Check it out! Originally appeared at: http://www.cheapsally.com/blog/the-2012-guide-to-dating-infographic/ Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us in Your Inbox! Online Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice Tips in Your Inbox… Follow @theurbandater Like this:Like Loading… Share This Article Facebook1Tweet0Pin6 Posted in: For Men, For Women, Online Dating Tagged in: infograph Have you ever ached with desire for someone you can’t have? Perhaps your married dentist? Or therapist? Or even a friend? You long to be in their company and to receive the simplest acknowledgement of how nice you look, how kind and funny you are.

You imagine all the gifts you want to give him and all the experiences you wish you could share. If only he felt the same way: then you’d feel happy and complete. And how about the men you actually do date: do you find yourself constantly choosing men who are just not right for you? Telling yourself if only they were like your married physician then the ache inside would be forever quelled? If any of this sounds familiar, you may be confusing love with longing—a trap that many people—especially women—fall into easily. It can, and has, led many of us into and then out of disappointing marriages, and left us facing futures alone yet still longing. Confusing love with longing happens when we label the painful yet exhilarating sensation of yearning for someone we cannot have as ‘love’.topadultreview.com But in fact, that sensation, and the fantasies it fuels, has more to do with the unmet needs of our childhood than true love. And not only that, ( and to make matters worse?) that compulsive craving actually distracts us from finding and receiving the available intimacy we deserve. I know this all too well because after my mother’s death when I was 45, I began therapy hoping for a psychic sanctuary for my grief. Despite being newly married, I quickly developed an intense, unrequited crush on my therapist. I found myself thinking about him obsessively between sessions, planning the outfits I’d wear to our appointments and wondering if he preferred chocolate chip cookies with or without nuts. I desperately wanted to run off with him. I was convinced that this was the true love I’d been yearning for all of my life.

My wholeness and healing felt dependent on having him love me the way I dreamed he could. Fortunately though, thanks to his professionalism, we didn’t run off together. Instead he helped me see that what I thought was love was in fact a defense against love and more an indication of the unmet needs of my childhood. The real love affair I needed to have first and foremost was with me! So many of us—especially women—confuse the tingly, hopeful feeling of longing with love as it is romanticized by Hollywood and on TV. We grow up on a diet of fairy tales and chick flicks that celebrate and perpetuate the myth that longing equals loving and that worthiness is something to be earned and conferred on us by an “other,” – often times, a man. As soon as the object of the longing is unavailable or inaccessible for whatever reason, he, she or it becomes all the more desirable and/or we become all the more unworthy.

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It’s easiest to get stuck on this compelling but treacherous treadmill of magical thinking when we doubt our self-worth—something women are also especially inclined toward. When we’re raised to believe that love is something to be earned from others, we believe, too, that earning it proves we are worthy. And when we doubt our self-worth, we unconsciously ramp up fearing that longing is the best we can do. But it’s dangerous. Regardless of distracting us from reality and preventing us from accessing the intimacy we deserve, confusing love and longing becomes a bad habit that can only induce emptiness and frustration. In believing that only what is unattainable is real, we disempower ourselves, creating obstacles to happiness fulfillment. To break the habit, it’s important to be mindful of the thoughts that fuel longing.

For example, if you often find yourself thinking, “My life would be so much better if only…” challenge the fiction of that belief and replace it with an appreciation for the beauty and bounty in your life. It’s also vital to remind yourself that unlike the perfection in your fantasies, real love is scary and messy, but it is the only love that is real and available. Ultimately, thanks to my therapist’s expert help, I was able to learn how to both give myself the abiding love and compassion I so craved and risk receiving love from others. This dawned on me one day while I was nonchalantly emptying the dishwasher and my husband Alan moved in the front door proclaiming, “The luckiest husband alive is home.” I awash with gratitude for the love that was standing before me, and for the first time felt ready and eager to receive it. Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us in Your Inbox! Online Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice Tips in Your Inbox… Follow @theurbandater Like this:Like Loading… Share This Article Facebook48Tweet0Pin4 Posted in: Online Dating Tagged in: intimacy, longing, love, Relationships If your boyfriend was born between April 21 and May 21, he is a Taurus, one of the earth signs of the zodiac. These men are one of the most romantic zodiac signs as they believe that passion is limitless. While many find Taurus men to be unfaithful, these men have the potential of being your dream life partner. They will open their hearts to you wide enough for you yourself to break it if you choose. Taurus men believe in transparency and pride themselves in searching for a profound relationship. If you are involved with a Taurus man, the perfect gift will appeal to his love for people and his secret desire to find the meaning of life. Dinner at his Favorite Restaurant Most Taurus men like extravagant, practical gifts. For example, if you could take him to his favorite spot and arrange for a completely private dinner with no other patrons in the restaurant, he would love that. However, if an exclusive dinner is beyond your means, your Taurus man will also appreciate a simple night out, which includes his favorite food, people and hobby. Perfect Shave Kit Because Taurus men get bored quickly, they love to meet new people.

They enjoy both short and long conversations and never hesitate to fill their free time with as many people as possible. Since your man loves attention so much, it is important that he always looks his best. Get him a pricey shave kit so he can perfect his appearance before engaging in his various social gatherings. Skydiving  Your Taurus boyfriend may not be a daredevil like a fire sign, but do not underestimate his desire for freedom and adventure. If he’s expressed a desire to do something wild and crazy, plan ahead and arrange for him to go skydiving. If you are not up for the event, ask one of his buddies to experience the jump with him. After the jump, you can have a cake with a funny message waiting for him and his friends at his favorite bar. Money Clip As an earth sign, your boyfriend probably works extremely hard. In fact, he most likely spends more time at your workplace than he does with his buddies or even you. Making money is a big part of his life, so give him a personalized money clip with an engraved inspirational quote on it. The quote are from an inside joke, his favorite movie or just simply words of motivation.

He will appreciate the sentiment. Taurus men want to be loyal because they want to have long-lasting relationships. Their desire to commit can often be broken once they feel that they are no further connected to whoever they are dating. If you are with a Taurus man, it is essential to keep the fire burning. If you maintain a high level of communication and passion, your Taurus man will cease his search for soul mate because he has found you. Ensuring that he feels connected to you on his birthday is the first step to solidifying your relationship. Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us in Your Inbox! Online Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice Tips in Your Inbox… Follow @theurbandater Like this:Like Loading… Share This Article Facebook5Tweet0Pin1 Posted in: Dating & Relationships Tagged in: gifts more or less two years ago I met a woman named Miss Melisa Mae. a blonde big-boobed blogger with epic cleavage and personality. We met at a bar in Orange County and I learned quickly that this woman backs down from no challenge or talks of penises and vaginas. My types of broad for sure. Join me in congratulating Miss Melisa Mae in turning two Someone get me some mayo for this sandwich Two years to the day Was born Miss Melisa Mae. Please hold your applause And take a moment to pause. To reflect on what’s been And gotten under my skin.

I’ll try to be quick But I’m a wordy ass chick. There was the dry humping Italian And the overeager Stallion. A man with one nut And men trying to poke me in the butt. There were men with buns in the oven Still looking for a little lovin. Plenty of guys who couldn’t spell And a newlywed from hell. My teacher from ninth grade Who was just trying to get laid. There was the stripping RN And more than one Nigerian. There was a fireman or two And lots of men with no clue. A 10 minute date And a redhead overweight. A man wearing gold lamé And one I thought was gay. There was the guy that couldn’t talk Until he pulled out his cock. Horrible texts And smothering sex. A married swinger Who was Chris Penn’s dead ringer. The cat loving loser The Tokyo drift cruiser. Hot Bicep Guy And lots of pictures of Peni.

Now that’s a lot of damn dating But I certainly ain’t hating. Congratulations to me Because I’m a fucking bad ass

That engagement ring if you’ll finally man up and propose.  Oh, and don’t you dare #$%k it up and get me the wrong one or I’ll beat your ass. *Cole is neither engaged, getting engaged or threatening engagement on anyone….umm..not today anyway.  She would like a plasma that gets only Bravo but the rest of this list is merely a dream. Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us in Your Inbox! Online Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice Tips in Your Inbox… Follow @theurbandater Like this:Like Loading… Share This Article Facebook1Tweet0Pin0 Posted in: Asides, For Men, For Women Tagged in: gifts, ideas Remember when stalkers were easily found and identified? They physically followed you somewhere – to your home, your office, a restaurant – and harassed you, or worse. You, in turn, called the cops, took out a restraining order, or practiced some of your self-defense maneuvers on the offender. Oh, How The Times Have Changed Those were the days. Annoying as actual stalkers were or are, today’s cyber-stalkers, who follow your movements via computer, are far more insidious and tougher to stop. And the problem is not insignificant: According to recent research from the National Cyber Security Alliance, some 20 percent of Us americans, or 1 in 5, have been affected by cyberstalking, persistent emails, and other unwanted contact. Much of this stalking takes place through social media such as Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. These outlets have changed the ways in which people connect, for better and for worse. They make it easier for you to stay in contact with friends and family – and easier for strangers, exes, creepy co-workers, and other undesirables to stay in contact with you.

  The Different Stages of Social Stalking The good news – kinda sorta – is that much of this stalking is comparatively harmless. Perhaps you’ve even indulged a bit yourself, Googling a date or prospective employee before meeting them, or checking out their Facebook profile. Being on the giving or receiving end of “Average Joe” stalking like this will be probably unavoidable, and since the motives are fairly benign, it’s probably not something to be overly worried about. Think of it whilst the online equivalent of being (or having) a nosy neighbor. It can escalate from there, though.